“Don’t Like to Write, But Like Having Written”

Dorothy Parker? George R. R. Martin? Frank Norris? Robert Louis Stevenson? Cornelia Otis Skinner? Clive Barnes? Gloria Steinem? Hedley Donovan?

No one is sure exactly who first said that. (see The Quote Investigator)

I suppose most writers have felt that way at some time in their careers. I did hear one writer of Romance novels say that she could spend all day writing, that she had no interest in doing anything else. I don’t remember her name (my version of writer’s block). Maybe I was in shock. I do remember thinking at the time, ‘So, you’d rather write about romance than actually experience it?’
Or, maybe that was just my defenses kicking in since I am one of those writers who need to duct tape themselves to the chair, face a blank wall and have all required refreshments close at hand. Even then, there are emails to write and answer, research that leads me far from what I was looking for in the first place, like ‘Gee, who really said the above quotation and who the heck is Hedley Donavan?’
So I have to find ways to trick myself into sitting down and actually writing. Last year I tried NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), which is a self-imposed marathon of writing. On November 1st of each year, “participants begin working towards the goal of writing a 50,000-word novel by 11:59 PM on November 30.”
I made it to 40,000 and I am still working on it. (more on that later).
In my own defense, the delay wasn’t all the fault of procrastination. Family emergencies sent my life in a totally unexpected direction, which forced me to rent a new house, fly out East, a car accident in Missouri and a bunch of other surprises jumping out of the shadows for no other reason than give me more excuses not to write.
The interesting thing about dragging my feet when it comes to writing—or should that be dragging my fingers?—is once I do get started and the words are flowing it becomes a wonderful roller-coaster ride of exploration, discovery and joy.
Often I’ve had to ask myself, “Writing gives me a sense of fulfillment and pleasure. It’s like conducting an orchestra or painting on a blank canvas with words of colors yet to be seen. Why then do I procrastinate? Why do I find a hundred and one things to distract me?”
Yes, there are times of frustration like when your words are pouring forth and then suddenly come to an abrupt stop. Or when you know that one word in the sentence is so wrong but you can’t think of anything better. But I know that no matter what you do in life, you’re going to have some bad days.
And when those days happen, I go and find a way to trick myself into making my writing a priority so I don’t end up with a dozen unfinished manuscripts nagging at me.
If any of your readers have a few tricks of their own to vanquish procrastination, please let me know. I could use a few more.




  1. velociraptora

    I tried Nanowrimo. I think three years ago when I was 16. It was the most amazing and fulfilling experience of my life. I finished over 50K words in a month. I was so proud of myself and it made me continue writing for almost another week straight without stopping for almost anything. But I still haven’t been able to finish a single one of my stories. Writing is my passion. I just haven’t found a trick for me yet. But I think I just need to stop second guessing myself. Maybe all we need to get going is to believe our story is amazing and we can really do it. Nanowrimo helped me a lot, too, though. So that makes me think setting a deadline can be very helpful. As perfectionists sometimes forget what a rough draft is for and deadlines make you concentrate. You could make it a deadline for one of your friends or family members. Maybe set a date that they get to read it. I probably didn’t write any useful information here, but if anything, just know that at least one other writer is procrastinating out there in the world. (That would be me, hint hint.)

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  2. Vincent Cole

    Because of my background in journalism, I do well with deadlines – but they have to be real. So, I’ve signed up to be a small part of the Tucson Festival of Books in March. I hope to finish The Faithful Fool before then and have it available for the festival. I hope others will share their ideas for creating Deadlines – real or imaginary.
    I think the next discussion on here will be How Not to be Perfect 🙂 I waste so much time finding that one perfect word.


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